tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26145864506252846302024-03-19T09:11:09.562-04:00Life LessonsTalking about life transforming issues, from parenthood to relationships, prosperity, self-esteem and even time menagement. Powerful tips for a better life and the secret to ultimate happiness.Galithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13205403268728572158noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614586450625284630.post-3954605244989528252016-10-01T12:08:00.001-04:002016-10-01T12:08:14.235-04:00How to Juggle kids, home and biz? 3 Effective Ways<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/8ewZewzrdKA" width="480"></iframe>Galithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13205403268728572158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614586450625284630.post-61628583383148461932016-09-29T13:47:00.001-04:002016-09-29T13:47:22.870-04:00How to Juggle kids, home and biz? 3 Effective Ways<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/8ewZewzrdKA" width="480"></iframe>Galithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13205403268728572158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614586450625284630.post-75574655503860394532016-09-29T13:11:00.001-04:002016-09-29T13:11:53.247-04:0010x Freedom and Fun Formula Training Webminar<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/pVdDUC5r_JQ" width="480"></iframe>Galithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13205403268728572158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614586450625284630.post-57673103023913241432016-08-25T17:47:00.001-04:002016-08-25T17:47:51.693-04:004 New Fast Ways to Get Clear about the Job You Love<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="344" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/HFFPKBgOb0g" width="459"></iframe>Galithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13205403268728572158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614586450625284630.post-21899844697586672016-08-25T17:46:00.001-04:002016-08-25T17:46:32.012-04:00How to Juggle kids, home and biz? 3 Effective Ways<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/8ewZewzrdKA" width="480"></iframe>Galithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13205403268728572158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614586450625284630.post-8781725461906805782015-07-20T08:00:00.000-04:002015-09-02T15:13:06.039-04:006 Easy Solutions To Double Your Motivation<br />
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Throughout my experience coaching, many people have come to me and said that they know what to do to get motivated, but that they have trouble applying their personal tools. You know what you need to do to find more time in your day, but you have trouble putting it into your schedule. For a while you may feel really motivated and schedule your time, but then you fall back into old habits. You feel angry with yourself and frustrated. As a consequence, you end up doing nothing.<br />
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So, how do you gain and maintain your motivation? Don't despair! I have 6 Easy Solutions To Double Your Motivation.<br />
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<b>6 Easy Solutions To Double Your Motivation:</b><br />
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<b>1)</b> <b>Maintain A Favorable Mindset. </b>Doing some important vibrational routines everyday, can help you maintain your motivation. When you feel energized and you think positively, it helps you feel more motivated than when you have negative thoughts about yourself and life situation.You may know this, except you might still have trouble following through. What can you do? Look at what is preventing you from taking action and following through with what you planned. Here are some questions to ask yourself.<br />
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<b>a) What particular thoughts come in when you start to schedule your time?</b> Write your thoughts down, as this will increase your awareness. Being aware and knowing what is happening in your mind, can help you gain control over it.<br />
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<b>b) What happened in your childhood every time you tried to take an action?</b> Is there a particular incident you remember? These questions can help unveil the false belief that is preventing you from taking action. Once you discover what it is, you can tackle it, and focus on finding a solution.<br />
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<b>c) Are you going through a tough time in your life right now?</b> If yes, think of what can you do to nurture yourself a little. Write down some ideas. <br />
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<b>d) What thoughts can bring you closer to your goal?</b> Write down some positive thoughts about yourself. For example.<i> I am kind.</i> <i> I am a hard worker. </i><br />
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<b>2)</b> <b>Take Time To Recharge And Rest. </b>If you have been working very hard, you may simply need a break to recharge and rest. It's important at this point to listen to your body and mind and stop for a while. It is alright to take time off. Once you give yourself permission to do so, you will notice that you feel more energized, stronger, and that your mojo comes back. Every time I have taken a break, I have felt my creative juices return. My energy level would be elevated, and I would be ready for action again! Sometimes we tend to force ourselves to work. The more we do that, the more resistance we receive from our body and mind. This is when it is time let go, and allow ourselves to shift gears for a while.<br />
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<b>3)</b> <b>Sick Family Members: </b>Some of you may have sick family members that require your attention. This situation makes it more challenging to find time for yourself and your projects. The only way to help that family member and yourself, is to delegate and ask for assistance from other people or from specific organizations. It is not easy for most people to do this, and it takes great courage. This is necessary, however, if you want to move forward yourself.<br />
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<b>4)</b> <b>Integrity: </b>Make a promise to yourself. When you make a promise to yourself, you are more likely to follow through and keep your promises to others as well. Doing this also helps you develop a strong work ethic.<br />
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<b>5) Eliminate Worry: </b>Worry can be something that can take away a lot of your energy. Worrying about reaching your goals, failing, not being good enough, and worries about personal life issues, can demotivate you. This is something that is difficult to tackle, but not impossible. I am the queen of worriers. It has been in my family for many years. My mother worries, my father used to worry, and my husband worries. Other family members are worriers too. What I do is focus on what I desire, and take the necessary actions in order to complete my goals. Of course, like any other human being, I have my moments where the "worry talk" can be very real. At these moments, I take a break from what I am doing, and let go. Another way that is effective is journaling. Writing down your thoughts in a journal helps release those negative feelings that hold you back.<br />
<b><br /></b><b>6) Exercise:</b> When you exercise, you feel more awake and energized. Find something that you enjoy doing such as walking, sports, or aerobics/dancing.<br />
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In using the above tools, I am confident that nothing can stop you from taking action. A strong will and an organized plan can bring you far! All you have to do is be ready! Start forming good habits of work now, and you are on the right path!<br />
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<b><i>- Finding more time for your loved ones so you can spend quality time with them.</i></b><br />
<b><i>-Reducing Overwhelm and stress so you can finally breath.</i></b><br />
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<b><i>-Unveiling what are the important activities you need to focus on</i></b><br />
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<b><i>-Identifying what is preventing you from managing your time effciently</i></b><br />
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<br />Galithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13205403268728572158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614586450625284630.post-14887618898533847072015-07-13T13:54:00.000-04:002015-07-14T17:56:52.203-04:00The Black Octopus<br />
One day I had a dream. In fact, it was a nightmare about a black Octopus who was following me in my living room. I tried to run away from it, hide, but the black Octopus was following me everywhere. It was very ugly, huge, and extremely annoying. I am the kind of person who pays close attention to dreams, because I believe that they contain important messages about ourselves and our lives. Our spirits send us important messages through our dreams. This is another extraordinary way to be aware of what is happening in your subconscious, as long as you can remember them. There are also many books that explains how dreams are related to your soul.<br />
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Every time I have a dream, I tend to consult a special dream dictionary. I am a very curious person, and I don't feel calm until I find the answer and the meaning to my dream. Therefore, I searched the dictionary for the significance of this dream. I discovered that the Black Octopus is a sign of someone who is controlling you. This gave me the inspiration to write this blog post. But the Black Octopus is not about people controlling you, but rather how our Ego, which I have now decided to call The Black Octopus, is controlling our thoughts daily.<br />
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For a very long time I was in a high vibrational state. Recently however, I started having some health issues, and my vibration has been lowered because of the pain and the inability to move as easily as I once did. The fact of having to stay home and depend on others to help me has not been easy for me. I am usually a pretty active person taking massive action. So now my mind has started wandering and thinking negative thoughts, which in turn is affecting my feelings. These thoughts are so strong, that even doing my regular spiritual work does not seem to be helping as much as it usually does. In addition, I have a sensitivity to cloudy weather. My mood changes drastically influencing my vibration. I am the kind of person who needs a lot of sun.<br />
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The lesson for me in all of this, is that there is still unresolved emotional pain I need to deal with. Sometimes, it is simply important to give space to that pain and sit with it. Not long ago I read a book by Debbie Ford called: <i>The Dark Side Of The Light Chasers.</i> She mentioned this very same thing. Throughout my experience, I am finding she is right. The more I resist the pain, the longer it lingers, and the Black Octopus stays feeling pretty happy making me feel pretty miserable. Sitting with it and allowing it to be here, is having the courage to face my little dark shadows.<br />
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I always try to look at the gift and the lesson of my experience. I believe that in my case, there are 3 important elements happening at the moment to help me grow.<br />
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<b>Here are the 3 Important Elements Helping Me To Grow:</b><br />
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<b>1) </b>I feel some <b>negative energy is being cleared</b> because I am doing some <b>special release work</b>.<br />
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<b>2)</b> I believe my <b>3rd eye is growing</b>. This might seem weird to some of you, but I noticed that I get into this mood when my intuition is becoming stronger. It is alright if you don't believe in that. Each of us is different.<br />
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<b>3) </b>I am receiving <b>new awareness about situations in my life </b>that have been laying dormant in my subconscious until now.<br />
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As the week passes, I am starting to have some awareness about taking responsibility for some personal issues in my life. One of these issues is the way I communicate with family members. I am learning that I have the tendency to be very bossy. I am having a hard time dealing with this. It is not easy for me to see this side of myself. I am also aware that because I am sick, I fall into the "victim mentality" role, and that this repels some people. Even if we are experts or coaches ourselves, our lives are not always perfect. If they were, we wouldn't be able to help others. There are times in our lives when we feel a down period as well. I am noticing it happens to me after I have been in a very high vibrational state.<br />
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What are you learning from your experiences when you have such a period of time? How do you cope with it? What learning do you gain from such experiences? Every time I have such a time, I use gratitude, and I try to see the gift in all of it if I can. When I do, the lessons are revealed to me.<br />
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We all have times when we may feel sad angry or any other feelings that put us in a unhappy mood and this when we can take the time to look at our darkness, introspect and see the richness even in those parts we don't like about ourselves and life. Even these moments are necessary to our growth as much as positive thinking. After all we are not born to be perfect, we are born to be human. I am glad to share with you these moments and my intention is to help you reflect on your own and see your inner beauty even in the flows and challenges of life and most of all see the gift and the benefits even if it can be hard.<br />
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<br />Galithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13205403268728572158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614586450625284630.post-58527939205440664872015-07-06T13:05:00.002-04:002015-07-13T14:01:07.203-04:005 Easy Ways to Have More Time<br />
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"I don't have time" is what we hear often when we meet someone. Sometimes we may hear, I am overwhelmed. How do you find more time? How do you organize your time better?<br />
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Chalene Johnson says it is not in doing more that you will be productive, but by knowing what matters to you the most, and focusing your activities around it.<br />
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One of the problems women face is wanting to do everything. We do it because we want to please everyone. We may be afraid of disappointing someone. As a consequence, we end up having a lot on our shoulders. We feel overwhelmed, exhausted, tired, angry. We may even lose the passion for what we are doing. In some cases, it can start to affect our health.<br />
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The good news is that there are always ways to find more time. Here are 5 ways that have worked for me and my clients.<br />
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<b>5 EASY WAYS TO HAVE MORE TIME:</b><br />
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<b>1)</b> <b>Choices: </b>We make choices everyday. We choose to eat, watch TV, spend time with our families, go to the computer. However, there is a different category of choices, and that is what I call "Tough Choices". These are the choices we don't want to make, but that are necessary for the growth of our business. The way we make these choices is by getting clear on what are the most important elements in our life. I have been an entrepreneur for seven years. In the beginning when I started my business, I was very happy because I had thought I would have more time with my family. As I learned more about business I realized I had to make some tough choices. I had to decide about spending time with my family versus working on my business. I chose to focus most of my time on my business. Now before you jump out at me, there is a way you can create a life balance, but perhaps not in the way you expect. What I mean by that, is that there are some responsibilities you might have to give up, and what they are really depends on you. One of the tasks I gave up was doing housework. I decided to hire someone to do this for me. This is not something that is easy for women to do, but if you really desire your business to work, there are some elements that need to be eliminated in order to create more space in your life to work on what is important to you. You may feel like pleasing everyone, but in doing this you may give up pleasing yourself. I strongly believe that the only way to be in harmony with and take care of others, is by putting yourself first, and listening to your needs and desires.<br />
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If family is your top priority, that means you will have less time to work on your business. It perhaps will take longer for your business to be profitable. In that case, I believe it is important to work with your guilt of not working on your business as much as you would like to, and find a way to accept this. If the situation is the opposite, it is important to accept the fact that you will devote more time to your business and less time to your family. At some point when your business grows, then you can hire professionals and delegate more tasks, creating more space in your life for your family and other interests.<br />
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Personally, what I do is work more on my business at some points in the year, except on weekends and evenings. Weekends and evenings are devoted to family time. On weekdays, I work more hours.<br />
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The best way to find out what works for you, is to do what I call a <i>What is Important To Me List</i> In this list, write 4-5 of the most important things for you in your life based on your values. On my list, I have the following right now: <i>Spiritual work</i>, <i>Self-Care</i>, <i>Workshops,</i> <i>Communicating With Prospect Clients and</i> <i>Clients, Coaching.</i> This is what I spend most of my week doing.<br />
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<b>2) Finding Time To Work On Your Business If You Work Full Time: </b>While I was giving a workshop on time-management at the beginning of the month, some participants brought to my attention that one of their challenges is<b> </b>finding the time to work on their business because they work full time. My question to you is, how much do you really really desire to have a successful business? How much do you love what you do? If the answer is yes I really really desire it, then there is nothing that will stop you. If you are finding excuses of not having the time, then re-evaluate if you are on the right path. I understand that it is not easy at all to have a full time job, come home and work even more. However, if it is your passion, it should not feel like work at all. Go back and ask yourself these questions;<br />
why are you in this business?<br />
Why did you choose to have this business?<br />
I know business owners who have children, a full time job, and they find time to work on their own business mostly in the evening. They may spend an hour or more per day, depending on their ability to stay up late at night. It doesn't have to be many hours, even one or two a day or night will take you far. I believe it is important to do it consistently.<br />
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<b>3)</b> <b>Eliminate The Interruptions:</b> In order to be more productive, it is very important to eliminate the interruptions such as e-mail, phone, TV, and internet. Perhaps you know this already, but you have trouble putting it into play. Every day when I'm about to start working, I close my TV, and while I work, I don't answer the phone. Now, if you know you will be tempted to answer the phone, turn it off. If you are a TV addict, find a different place where you can work that doesn't have a TV. I know some business owners who don't work at home go to a library, a coffee place, anywhere out of the house. There are also some business owners who rent an office to avoid the problem of distractions.<br />
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As for e-mails, phone calls or other distractions, do it after you have done all the important tasks you planned. Set an activity you like as a reward for yourself for having a productive day and accomplishing the most important tasks on your list.<br />
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If you are still having trouble, here are a few questions you can ask yourself:<br />
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a) Why do you need to look at your e-mails three or more times a day? Do you have any urgent messages?<br />
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b) Why do you need to answer the phone? Is there a way you can get back to someone later on? Do you absolutely need to answer the phone now? Is it a matter of life or death?<br />
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c) Why is it important?<br />
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d) What other ways can you find to eliminate these distractions?<br />
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e) Is there something that prevents you from taking action? What is it? Take the time to think about this question. For example, I have a client who doesn't like structure. She is afraid of losing her freedom. I have other clients who are afraid they will fail, or feel they are not good enough. They have trouble doing certain tasks because of this.What is it for you? Sometimes it may simply be a fear or a false belief you have that prevents you from reaching your goals.<br />
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f) Find an accountability partner to remind you to stay focused or hire a coach. I suggest to find someone who is reliable, a person you can count on.<br />
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<b>4)</b> <b>Focus On Important Tasks: </b>Now go back to the <i>What is Important to Me List.</i> Based on this list, decide what are 3-5 activities you will work on this week. They will be the ones that will bring you the most income for your business. Focus on accomplishing those activities first. Being productive is not about doing more, but about doing less, and doing it well. When you do too many things, you tend to focus your attention on activities that are not very important, and you end up feeling tired. This also creates stress. There are some people who are able to function well under fatigue, but most of us can't perform very well when we feel exhausted. When you do less, you are more rested. This will increase your focus which will help you perform better.<br />
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Here are some other questions to assist you in managing your time better:<br />
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a) What activities are activities that generate income for you?<br />
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b) What tasks are related to your current goals?<br />
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c) What are some activities that will bring you closer to your goals?<br />
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d) What specific tasks are related to your "What is Important To Me List"?<br />
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<b>5)</b> <b>Decide how long each task will take.</b> For example, when I do my spiritual work, I know it will take me about an hour and half to two hours. I do this first thing in the morning, and I start my work at ten thirty in the morning. I know it will take me about an hour a day to write my blog. This includes brainstorming, proof reading, and polishing it until it is good enough to publish. It is important to know how long each task takes you to do. Sometimes it may happen that one task will take you longer than you have anticipated, and that is fine. At this moment, you need to adjust your schedule differently. For example, you go to a networking event, it is important to know it will take longer. It is important to calculate the commuting time, the time you stay, the time you may want to talk with others. Knowing how long each task may take, can help you be better prepared.<br />
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Managing your time can be easy with a few tools in hand. Good time-management is about doing less and focusing on what is important to you, rather than being in a race to do more. I strongly believe it is important to do quality work, rather than rush, become stressed, and really not being able to finish tasks. By doing only what is essential, you save time and stress. This allows you to take breaks, relax, and most of all, enjoy your work as well as serving your clients better.<br />
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<b>-Being more organized and efficient so you can have more time for you</b><br />
<b>- Finding time for you and your loved ones so you can spend more quality time with them.</b><br />
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When it comes to time-management, you often know what you need to do. But when it comes time to take action, you can't seem to feel the drive to do it. Many times I give speeches about time-management, and I often hear people say they lack the drive to take action. Recently, I gave a speech about time-management, and the issue came up again. Two of my participants said, "We know we need to set priorities, make choices etc. But when it comes to working on our business, we are not as motivated to take action towards our goals."<br />
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This news really bothered me. So I decided to take action and do some more research on the subject. Some of the information I found did not surprise me, and some did. This weekend I watched a Tony Robbins video where he spoke about why some people take massive action and others don't.<br />
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<b> Here are 7 of the reasons why people are either motivated or not motivated to take action towards their goals</b>. Some were revealed to me through this interesting video, and some were my own personal observations over the years.<br />
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<b>1)</b> <b>FEAR:</b> Fear is the #1 reason why people don't take action. People are afraid they will fail. I also personally noticed that people are fearful of change. Many people prefer not to take action because they feel comfortable being where they are and with what is familiar to them. The problem is remaining in your comfort-zone just keeps you stuck in the same pattern you are. When you get the courage to step out of what is familiar to you and try something new and scary, it helps you overcome your fears and opens your mind to possibilities. Tony Robbins says that all you need to do is to take very small actions. Not everyone is ready to take big massive actions. If this is the case, simply start with small ones.<br />
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<b>2)</b> <b>YOUR MISSION.</b> People don't know their <i>why</i>. I personally believe that before we do anything, it is important to know why we are doing it. Most people don't think about this question. Why are you selling X product? What is your goal? How can you serve people with these products? However, there is another <i>why</i> and it is what I personally call your <b>life mission</b>. I strongly believe we all have a mission on this earth, to contribute to this world in a positive way, a way that can change the world for the better. Sadly, most people don't know what theirs is. What happens is they don't have a reason to take action. When you know your mission, the reason of your existence on this earth, you naturally feel motivated, propelled and even excited to take action. In addition, your life begins to have more meaning.<br />
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<b>3) YOUR MUST. </b>Tony Robbins says that people need a <i></i><b>must,</b> meaning people need to feel they must do something. I am one of these people who believe that what I am doing is a must. I am a very self-driven person. This comes by having the determination and ambition to achieve.<br />
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<b>4) FAITH. </b>This means faith<b> t</b>hat whatever you are doing is possible. In the month of May this year, I gave a workshop on how to find your passion and pursue it. I had one participant who thinks she cannot realize her dream. She believes it is impossible. Since she was a young child, she was taught that her dream of being a designer cannot be realized. In the country where she lived, there were no designer schools. Unfortunately, she grew up with the false idea that it is impossible to achieve what she desired. She lived the rest of her life feeling unhappy because she felt she cannot fulfill her passion. Faith in yourself and in your dream and goals, is crucial in finding the drive to do what you desire. This is what gives you the fuel to take action. If you don't believe you can accomplish something, then you perhaps don't believe in your own capabilities. It is possible that your journey will not be easy, but there is a saying: "Whatever you conceive and believe you can achieve."-Natalie Ledwell<br />
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<b>5) A STRONG AND DEEP DESIRE.</b> Do you really really desire it? Whatever your goal is, do you really desire it? If you don't feel motivated to take action and others want it more than you do, ask yourself if you really desire it. Many people love iphones. Not all people have the money to buy an iphone, yet I see them pass on other things, but get this phone. This proves that when you really want something, your mind will find ways to get it even if you may think you can't. When you have a deep desire, you will have the drive and the energy to go after what you want.<br />
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<b>6) YOU ARE NOT READY</b>. Some of you might not be ready yet. Perhaps it is not the right moment in your self-development to take action. Perhaps you will find the drive later in life. That is alright. Each person has a specific moment in life when he is ready for change and transformation. When the right moment comes, you will feel it, and know it is the time to take action and move yourself forward.<br />
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<b>7) TOO OLD, TOO LATE</b>.<b> </b>People in their fifties or sixties feel it is too late to make changes because of their age. It is never too late, and age should not create a barrier for you to set new goals, or allow it to deplete your energy in any way.<br />
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I suggest that you examine all of these points and see which one resonates with you the most. Once you are aware of the barriers that prevent you from taking action, you can start by looking at them. Then, do a personal introspection, and see why they are there and where do they come from. Why do you feel fear? Does a specific experience in the past trigger it? Once you do this, you can move forward and see what has given you the drive to take action in the past and what was effective. Each one of us had something that gave us motivation and energy to do something. Right now, are there other domains in your life where you feel very motivated to take action? Why? What motivates you?<br />
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I strongly believe that when you really desire something you conquer fears, and you make it a priority in your life. If you don't have the motivation, ask yourself if you really have a strong desire to have what your heart wants and reach a goal, whatever it is. I know one thing, if you want an iphone or a vacation and you can make it happen, then you can reach any goal you set your mind to. You can find the motivation to pursue it, and find time to work on it, even if it means waking up one hour earlier in the morning or going to sleep later to get it done. If you desire results, action needs to be taken in order to bring it into fruition, and not just any action, but one that comes from your intuition. Even the wrong actions are good actions. One day I was walking in my neighborhood, and I heard a little voice saying: "All paths lead to the same destination." Imagine a tree. You tend to it, water it, take care of it, and it grows beautifully. However, you need to take the action to take care of it, or it will not grow and it will die. It is the same in life.<br />
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<br />Galithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13205403268728572158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614586450625284630.post-25012731488012267732015-06-08T09:41:00.000-04:002016-03-16T13:14:32.601-04:00Ignite Your Passion: 3 Effective Ways to Get Clear about Your Passion.<div class="p17" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">The problem is that you do what you don’t love, because that is what society dictates to you. You do it</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">You may have many ideas of what you desire to do, but you can’t decide which one is the right idea. You </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"> or consider it, because you feel it is impossible to achieve. Imagine a box where you place your desire. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: x-small;">You lock it with a key and never look at it again. The problem is this desire is still burning in your heart</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">When you love what you do, you feel happier, more satisfied with your life, enthusiastic, successful and </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"> Each woman deserves to do something she loves to do for a career or even a hobby. Each woman deserves</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">because it brings happiness to your life. This happiness is essential to your well-being, self-esteem, health, as well as your relationship with others. When you follow your passion, you have freedom. You do something that is</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">Imagine coming home to your family feeling relaxed and satisfied with your day. You feel your heartbeat</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"> family and give them more attention. Most of all, you are being a good <span style="text-indent: -0.5pt;">example, a champion to your </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">they matter to you and to themselves. They see that it is important to do what they love in life, to be happy, and live a meaningful life being authentic to who they are.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">Imagine for a moment how it is to go to a job every day that you don’t like. You need the money, but come home feeling miserable. Then, you are so busy thinking how miserable you are at work, that you may not be as present as you would like to be with your children and your partner. Yes, you may have the income you desire, but if you are not happy, your loved ones won’t be happy either. It affects you and your </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">What are some of your values? Many times, lack of clarity may appear because you may not know yourself as well as you think you do.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"> Knowing what your values are, can help you find a job that aligns with who</span></div>
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Galithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13205403268728572158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614586450625284630.post-70985479546628550002014-07-22T14:39:00.001-04:002014-07-22T14:42:00.008-04:003 Fearless Tips to becoming more Courgeous. Today I saw the movie Karate Kid. I liked it very much. What I liked the most is that some of the messages were more powerful and beyond the fight. <br />
I loved the part towards the end when the kid wanted to continue fighting because he wanted to vanquish his fear. It is what I have spoken about many times. When you are afraid of something simply vanquish it by doing what you are afraid of. When you face your fear you diminish the power of your Ego. Did you know that 60% of fears never happen? Fear is an illusion our mind forms. For instance when you fear darkness? Why do you fear it? What are you afraid of? Many kids are afraid of the dark because they believe there are monsters under the bed. Are there really monsters under the bed? <br />
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74% of people are afraid of public speaking. I interviewed numerous people and I discovered that most people are afraid to speak in front of the crowd for the following reasons:<br />
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Do any of these fears ever happen? Here is the thing some people may like your speech because they relate to it and the subject interests them and some may not because the subject does not interest them or other reasons. Can you please everyone? No. I suggest don't even try. The most important part is how do you feel about it. When I give a speech I set the following intention and it is to inspire at least one person in that room and motivate one person to take at least one small action to turn his life around. <br />
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You are scared about forgetting your lines? What can you do to prepare yourself to the best of your abilities? Preparation is key to delivering an excellent speech. I remember every time I took the time to plan my speech and than give myself a few days to practice my speeches were very good. When I was taking too many speeches more than I could handle my speeches were not that great. Preparation and practice are key to delivering a good speech you are proud of.<br />
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Did you know that you can vanquish a fear through your dreams? When I was in University, I remember doing research just about this subject and one of the things that I have discovered is that indeed you can vanquish fears through dreams. In fact the Natives are the ones who are strong believers in the power of dreams especially when it comes to vanquishing fears.<br />
It is interesting that I had a dream about it about a week ago. I dreamt that someone wanted to come and attack me, in fact a bunch of people. I remember seeing these people in other dreams. I was afraid to open the door. But someone rang my door and all I remember is that I opened the door just slightly and I saw them just downstairs. I locked my door upstairs. When I did that there was a voice telling me in my dream that I have just vanquished FEAR. These people in my dream were representing a fear I had and by closing the door they vanished. The lesson I learned is that I have closed a chapter about a certain fear I had. I felt victorious at that moment, I felt like a winner and I felt so proud. Suddenly a sense of security and relief surrounded my being.<br />
If you can remember your dreams thus you also can overcome some fears you have during a dream.<br />
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Fear is an important factor in self-confidence. People who suffer from low self-confidence suffer greatly from fears such as fear of making mistakes, fear of not being good enough, fear of being rejected and most of all fear of not being loved. Fear is one of the biggest obstacles in feeling more confident. Fear is what creates self-sabotage. Just when you are close to reaching your goal you might hear the little voice in your head that says: "You don't have enough experience, you don't have enough knowledge to have that promotion, to take that next opportunity, to have more money, more success, and a better partner. Being aware of this fear or fears can help you find ways to overcome it. My life lesson to you today is be fearless. Get out of your comfort zone and take at least one step you are ready to take now to overcome your fear. Once you start being courageous you will start growing the stem of your flower and allow the sunshine to get in even if there is darkness. Even one ray of light can change a lot in your life.Galithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13205403268728572158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614586450625284630.post-14843005173248319922010-08-29T13:50:00.000-04:002010-08-29T13:50:23.168-04:00How to love yourself? A tip that transforms your life.<object style="BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(http://i3.ytimg.com/vi/F3TktqXz_jY/hqdefault.jpg)" height="344" width="425"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/F3TktqXz_jY?fs=1&hl=en_US"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/F3TktqXz_jY?fs=1&hl=en_US" width="425" height="344" allowscriptaccess="never" allowfullscreen="true" wmode="transparent" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"></embed></object>Galithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13205403268728572158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614586450625284630.post-216002057626614642010-08-12T22:35:00.002-04:002010-08-12T23:07:32.039-04:003 super duper strategies to manifest your dream.<object height="344" style="background-image: url(http://i2.ytimg.com/vi/EcYP7YTnIo8/hqdefault.jpg);" width="425"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/EcYP7YTnIo8?fs=1&hl=en_US"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/EcYP7YTnIo8?fs=1&hl=en_US" width="425" height="344" allowscriptaccess="never" allowfullscreen="true" wmode="transparent" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"></embed></object><br />
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Do you have a big dream you want to make true? Imagine being a millionaire living in the house of your dreams, driving a Mercedes, having someone do all the housework for you, get yourself pampered all day and sit on the beach drinking your favourite Sangria. <br />
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Now the dream is an amazing, wonderful dream, we all want this kind of life, don't we? Well, it is possible, with a few tortures here and there. Neh! Just kidding.<br />
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You can have that house, that car, live on the beach and get pampered and that is if you learn how to use visualization the right way. I mean not just sitting there and visualizing, there is a better more powerful way to do that. Do you want to know how?<br />
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What happens is that we start visualizing, but suddenly our mind might drift away elsewhere or we might not know what to visualize or how to visualize. How do you use this so powerful tool the right way and make it work for you?<br />
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In this video I share specific tips on how to do that. I actually work you through the process and explain to you in minute detail how to use it effectively to work for you. No it is not just general information. It is a step by step process right here on how to use it.<br />
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I will have even more tips like this very soon, so stay tuned. You can watch more on youtube here: <br />
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You can also get even more specific details and more information with longer videos e-mailed to you each 2 weeks by subscribing right here: <a href="http://galitscampcoaching.com/videos">http://galitscampcoaching.com/videos</a>Galithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13205403268728572158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614586450625284630.post-31706295917895163512010-07-27T12:52:00.001-04:002014-07-22T14:46:07.525-04:00How to Get along with difficult People.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<strong>Do you have a person at work you really can't get along with?</strong> <strong></strong><br />
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<strong>I started a video series on youtube about how to deal with difficult people at work. To see the beginning go</strong> here: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pqhXNB0oCj0">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pqhXNB0oCj0</a> <br />
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This is <strong>tip # 3</strong> of the series. <strong>Watch this video to see what it is. </strong><br />
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Many times working with a co-worker who is always in a bad mood, or someone who does not agree with the way you work can affect you so much that it <strong>may start to hinder your productivity</strong> at work as well as your entire life.<br />
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You might be spending the time after work feeling angry, anxious,and exhausted so much that you are unable to spend quality time with your family. <br />
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<strong>In my videos I have some practical solutions so you can keep the job you love, go to work everyday with a peaceful mind, happy attitude and spend quality time with your family.</strong><br />
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However if you wish to have more help on this, you can sign up to receive more videos like this on my site: <a href="http://galitscampcoaching.com/videos">http://galitscampcoaching.com/videos</a><br />
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If there any other issues you would like me to discuss here that are pertaining to life then by all means <strong>feel free to leave me comments below. </strong>Galithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13205403268728572158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614586450625284630.post-47576236206524389502010-07-07T12:05:00.001-04:002010-07-07T12:40:15.811-04:003 ways LOA works easily<object height="344" style="background-image: url(http://i4.ytimg.com/vi/c0axtioA2mU/hqdefault.jpg);" width="425"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/c0axtioA2mU&hl=en_US&fs=1"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/c0axtioA2mU&hl=en_US&fs=1" width="425" height="344" allowscriptaccess="never" allowfullscreen="true" wmode="transparent" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"></embed></object><br />
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If you are a fan of the law of attraction, but no matter what you do, you still have trouble then this video is for you. In this video I explain 3 ways you can use to help you attract what you want easily and effortlessly. <br />
In this video I reveal the missing ingredients to make the law of attraction works more effectively.<br />
If you want to see more videos of me than you can find me on You tube at galitf100. If you want to view my previous video than <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?vALF5OFvQd8">click here.</a><br />
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If you want to find more information than subscribe to my newsletter: The Right Answer where I share more fabulous tips like this by going to this site: <a href="http://galitscampcoaching.com/home">http://galitscampcoaching.com/home</a><br />
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But if you want to get your goal faster and quicker then you can do so by working with me. I now offer a special limited offer for 6 sessions for 50$ a month for the first 10 people who sign up. This offer is available until July 30th. My regular price is 300$ a month which is a huge bargain. So hurry up and sign up <a href="http://galitscampcoaching.com/registration_form">http://galitscampcoaching.com/registration_form</a> Places are limited.Galithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13205403268728572158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614586450625284630.post-18909651201205852162010-03-17T23:21:00.000-04:002010-03-17T23:21:07.234-04:00<strong>I am going to be a guest in a wonderful blogtalkradio show about life.</strong> In this series where other coaches as well as myself will share with you our self-growth experiences as well as some<strong> marvelous effective tips on how to get in touch with your soul and inner power and attract more of the things you want to have in your life. </strong><br />
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<strong>I will be speaking on the show on May 17 and 24 about finding success in little things and how to find your true passion. I am very excited about the show and will love you to join me there. To find more information</strong>, go to the following site: <a href="http://www.lifepathradio.net/index.html">http://www.lifepathradio.net/index.html</a><br />
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<strong>Sign up Now</strong>! Go this site: <a href="http://galitscampcoaching.com/home">http://galitscampcoaching.com/home</a>Galithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13205403268728572158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614586450625284630.post-36725835944152802512010-03-12T16:23:00.000-05:002010-03-12T16:23:27.696-05:00CHASING SUCCESSA lesson that I have learned recently is why do many of us chase success. We want success in any form. We are hungry for it, we crave it, we dream about it and we taste it every minute of our day. Why? Why do we chase success? Why do we want to have success so much? What is missing in our lives? <br />
Did you ever think why do you need it? What does it bring to your life? One day not long ago I suddenly decided to explore these very questions. Almost all my life I have been taught that success is important in our lives What I do think is that it has to come from a very deep place within ourselves. <br />
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What I have learned recently is, that in my personal view, it is more than just success. In order to attain success as Joe Vitale says, we have to be in a state of not needing it. I believe that when I did this journey search I have become aware of some things that I never came upon before and I would like to share it today with you. <br />
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What I have found might shock you. We chase success many times because we are looking to fulfill something we believe we lack and because we want to feel loved and appreciated by others. <br />
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Let's look at the first part of fulfilling something we believe we lack. I know someone who all her life believed that she is incompetant and she was chasing success because she wanted to fill in that void. She thought that if she gains success than she will feel competant. She didn't know it in the beginning, it took her a while to figure it out. <br />
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What happens is that the more she feels that way, the more she will recieve what she is afraid of because the way she percieves herself will reflect on the outside. What she has learned is that she has to accept that she is this way and afterwards change the perspective into one that empowers her, meaning feeling competant. When I talk about competance I am refering to professional competance. Feeling that you are excellent at what you do, that you know you are excellent at it.<br />
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The second part is feeling loved and appreciated by others. Success can bring outside appreciation, but it won't last for long unless the person feels self-appreciation and self-love. It all comes from a very deep level, from the supreme self. Feeling good about who you are first and than others will automatically feel it and start acting towards you in a more positive way. <br />
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Success is self-growth and learning constantly what is really important in our lives and being able to appreciate the present moment. Seeing life as a learning process and dealing with obstacles well in the best way we can. <br />
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I hope that through this post i have given you a different perspective about success and that success will come to us when we least expect it too and when we don't feel the need for it. Let the Universe surpise you and be grateful for every little surprise.<br />
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By<br />
Galit Lazar<br />
Life Coach<br />
To know more about me and my services, visit my website: <a href="http://galitscampcoaching.com/home">http://galitscampcoaching.com/home</a>Galithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13205403268728572158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614586450625284630.post-49302889422408589982010-02-10T22:39:00.001-05:002010-03-12T16:10:28.090-05:00HOW DECLUTTERING AFFECTS YOUR MIND.Finally I have done my paperwork. I went even further by cleaning up the mess I had in one of the corners of my room that has been bothering me for quite some time. <br />
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My space looks so much better now. I wonder how to do a video and post it here. I know how to make a video, but gush how do I upload it here. So I am very proud of my work because I feel so relieved. <br />
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I noticed that since I have done that I have found a lot of answers to questions I had for a very long time. I also was able to make some important decisions. It is amazing how clearing your physical space helps you put order in the little inner jungle we live with everyday. A jungle of so many thoughts and overwhelm.<br />
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Every time I feel ready I tuckle another corner or room or section in my house and clear all the things I don't need. I don't do it on a regular basis, but rather only when I feel the need to.<br />
What do you think? What are you doing about your clutter? How do you feel about clutter or how do you feel about having an organized space? Did you notice the effect it has on your life and your thoughts? I would love to hear your thoughts about it.Galithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13205403268728572158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614586450625284630.post-16560761771443057582010-02-10T22:26:00.000-05:002014-07-22T14:13:07.299-04:00DECLUTTERING BRINGS CLARITY<div>
Recently I have been busy decluttering. I love decluttering, it is such a relief. Decluttering is not just clearing your physical space, but also your mental space. It brings clarity into your life. When you declutter you clean up your mind by getting rid of some old thoughts and beliefs and than prepare your mind for fresh new ideas. </div>
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My space is still not where I want it to be, but my closets are a little better. My next and biggest challenge is to clear up my paperwork and it is a challenge because I don't know where to place it. I don't have a specific space to put it yet. I have some ideas like putting it in some shoeboxes or buying something that I can put the papers in. <br />
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I will post soon to let you know where I am in the process.<br />
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Galithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13205403268728572158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614586450625284630.post-47806184533080599982009-11-12T18:12:00.005-05:002009-11-21T21:10:30.182-05:00WHY MY CHILD DOESN'T READ?How do you get your child to read when they don't want to?<br /><br />At some point as parents we face this issue, especially as our children grow up. Often the situation results in frustration, argument and no results.<br /><br />What to do?<br /><br />I decided that the simple way to deal with it is to let go. What I did is I decided to show my son that I love to read. Children often learn from imitation and as parents we are their role models. We are the ones who set an example to our kids and the ones who model the right behaviour. Do you think that begging your child will make him read? I noticed that it gave me worst results. My son is the kind of kid that needs someone to sit with him, he won't read on his own, even though he is big now. He loves to have attention and quality time. I rather sit with him when I can and read with him rather than leave him by himself and not have him read.<br /><br />Back to modeling the behaviour. Once a child see that you read regularly, at some point he might want to do it as well. For instance, I noticed that when my husband watches TV a lot, my son will do the same. Well that is a not a desired behaviour we want, but it is just an example to illustrate the power of imitation.<br /><br />Last night my daughter asked me to read her a book before going to sleep, and almost every evening she wants me to read her a book. My daughter is still small and can't read by herself yet. My son was not fully asleep and after I finished reading to my daughter, he surprised me by expressing the desire to read a book. He sat there for half an hour and read, something he didn't do before. To my surprise he even read by himself. OOf! finally! A sigh of relief!<br /><br />My opinion is that you just have to find a subtle gentle way to encourage children to read. Letting go and accepting a situation is the most powerful way that I found works well. It might sometimes take time, but it is worth while because it gets a quality result rather than a forced result. While reading this statement you might feel that you are being lenient, but not at all, it is rather being a better parent.<br /><br />What do you think? What are methods you have tried and found worked for you? I would love to hear from you.Galithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13205403268728572158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614586450625284630.post-12541523711592393132009-11-08T13:41:00.002-05:002009-11-08T14:03:26.836-05:00THE POWER OF THE MINDDo you ever listen to your thoughts? Do you know how powerful your thoughts are? 90% of our brain is subconscious and only 10% is which means that most of the time we are unaware of what we are thinking.<br />Do you know that the way you think affects the way you feel about yourself and others? Yes tremendously. People can feel how you <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">perceive</span> yourself. If you feel guilty, people will make you feel even guiltier because they catch up the vibe. They are not aware that they do, they do it naturally. Did it ever happen to you? How did you feel? Do you feel like blaming <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">someone</span> else for this feeling? If you do don't, instead see it as a way for the other person to send you an <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">awareness</span> message about how you feel inside.<br />With time I learned to be aware of these things and it is amazing how rapidly one <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">catches</span> up with these things once you practice.<br />If you want to be aware of your thoughts, I suggest that you sit down in a quite place, close your eyes, take 3 deep breathes and start to listen to your thoughts. You can also write them down in order to increase your <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">awareness</span>.<br />Our life is evolved around thoughts, but we as individuals have the power to control them.<br />Notice what kind of thoughts you have. Are they positive thoughts or negative ones? What do you focus on most? What subject do you think about most of the time?<br />Did you know that your thoughts can also affect your health? So far I didn't see scientific evidence of that as much as I know, but I did observe it and many people already observed it such as Louise Hay and Lise <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">Bourbeau</span> who also found ways of healing certain diseases.<br />I am a great believer in the Power of the mind. I believe that the mind is a very powerful tool and if we know how to use it we can use it very effectively in our life as long as we help other people and do good deeds.<br />Have you noticed your personal Power? Do you listen to your thoughts? What have you noticed? I would love to hear from you. You know it is nice to write blogs, but it is even more <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">interesting</span> when I get comments and see what is your take on things as well.Galithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13205403268728572158noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614586450625284630.post-58324819993203165042009-11-04T19:03:00.005-05:002010-03-12T16:08:46.211-05:00HOW PASSION TRANSFORMS YOUR LIFEWhen I went to <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Las</span> Vegas I met a dancer who gave us a tour at the backstage of a show. I was <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">fascinated</span> by this tour. This woman showed us the backstage and explained to us every detail. What I loved most is that she was so <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">friendly</span>, warm, <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">pleasant</span> and seemed very confident.<br />
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This woman was so passionate about what she has showed us and her love for dancing was so vivid and honest. I mean you can see when someone really loves what they do by the way they talk. You can feel someone enthusiasm right away and that is the vibration that attracts what you want into your life.<br />
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This dancer was very <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">knowledgeable</span> about her profession. I am so grateful and happy to have had the opportunity to see that.<br />
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It is something that I dreamt of all my life and having such an opportunity is a dream come true. I must admit that many of my dreams have come true this year because I started <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">believing</span> they can come true.<br />
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Again I realized the power of following your passion and how happy it can make a person and transmit this happiness to other people as well. When I left that theatre I felt such a peaceful warm feeling inside and I will never forget that dancer and the tour.<br />
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If she is reading this post, I wish her all the best and to continue to follow her passion because that is what makes her happy and gives her a good vibration and love which she automatically transmits to others. I also want to take the chance to thank <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">her</span> again for teaching me so much about how things go backstage. Thank you! :)<br />
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Galit.Galithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13205403268728572158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614586450625284630.post-91724092330173619792009-10-20T11:33:00.004-04:002009-11-08T14:12:08.033-05:00BEAUTY ON TV, REALITY OR ILLUSION?You wake up in the morning and the first thing you do is look in the <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">mirror</span> and start looking at all the parts of your body you wish you could change.<br />You look at the TV and you see all those beautiful perfect woman and say to <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">yourself</span>, well why don't I look like that? I have a <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">cellulite</span> here, a big tummy here, too much fat there. What if fashion was different? What if we would be shown women that are less than perfect? I am sure that we wouldn't be so <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">complexed</span> about how we look right?<br />Do you think that these women really look so perfect? After listening to many shows, observing these woman, reading about beauty, I realized especially after the <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">Gwyneth</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">Palttrow</span> interview on the Oprah show that it is all an <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">illusion</span>. These woman work very hard to look this way and in most cases they do have plastic surgery. They are not completely natural. They get dressed in a way that will advantage their body, they have special makeup and a million ways to hide all the imperfections so we the viewers will be convinced that they are the image of perfection when in fact they are not, they are really just like all the rest of us. Without all the <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">treatments</span>, they have a belly, cellulite, hair and many other imperfections. All they did is find ways to hide it. Disappointed? Relieved?<br /><br />It just reminds me of another fact, that even the barbies our children play with are made perfect. really, what kind of values does society teach us?<br /><br />Women especially are often concerned about losing weight. We are always in search of the perfect diet. But what is really the perfect diet? Often times you think it is your genes, you were made this way and so forth. Is weight loss really about the physical or is it more? In my opinion, as long as you lack self-love, the longer the fat will stay with you. You see, your body is sending you a message about how you really feel about yourself and unless you heal that part of yourself, the weight will still stay on. How many women risk their health in order to lose weight? When you lose it, then you have to work hard to maintain it. What if I told you that there is another way, a psychological kind of way to solve that problem? How patient are you willing to be?<br /><br />With time I have realized that when I take my time and lead a healthy style and concentrate on the things I love, the weight gradually disappears. When you grow as a person, when you feel good about yourself, your body doesn't need to keep that fat anymore. Look within yourself to find what it is that make you gain wight, and what is the lesson in that <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8">experience</span>.Galithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13205403268728572158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614586450625284630.post-26428935846986548302009-10-19T14:03:00.000-04:002009-10-19T14:03:39.957-04:00The Redhead Riter - Witty, Intelligent and Addictive#comment-form<a href="http://theredheadriter.blogspot.com/2009/10/just-tad-obsessive.html#comment-form">The Redhead Riter - Witty, Intelligent and Addictive#comment-form</a>Galithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13205403268728572158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2614586450625284630.post-14801537982920288272009-10-15T15:34:00.014-04:002009-10-20T12:32:39.082-04:00BLIND FAITH<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOGXQfjQiCWsPmcgq1IwGmiEr71r_6y_mQXE5-in0ukJbVEml4Brsx6nDLcK8lr44cgX2PE2JxOKeOucY3ge1Qc5pifaoevdT2ViZO1AKfPV4gh4NUZYqNU4HdqRxgB1-mr2tzREKRIzWa/s1600-h/faith_sunset_bird.gif"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5393776590529205778" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 285px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 285px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOGXQfjQiCWsPmcgq1IwGmiEr71r_6y_mQXE5-in0ukJbVEml4Brsx6nDLcK8lr44cgX2PE2JxOKeOucY3ge1Qc5pifaoevdT2ViZO1AKfPV4gh4NUZYqNU4HdqRxgB1-mr2tzREKRIzWa/s320/faith_sunset_bird.gif" border="0" /></a><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjRQA77StWLtMDotyNDTr8qvmEsaIIgM2Lz4iMGsCT_UDCFutIj9XlPMVTB2u-9Y02ZkLrSJvsMXOU6DMmjVQJ0kxz4YvbRugqFGgAgGhjoJFVZe5IuDmx5f9MeaU6teHoYff9LRlu1zewI/s1600-h/dove.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5393776305259627282" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 251px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjRQA77StWLtMDotyNDTr8qvmEsaIIgM2Lz4iMGsCT_UDCFutIj9XlPMVTB2u-9Y02ZkLrSJvsMXOU6DMmjVQJ0kxz4YvbRugqFGgAgGhjoJFVZe5IuDmx5f9MeaU6teHoYff9LRlu1zewI/s320/dove.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><div></div><div></div><div><em></em> </div><div><em></em> </div><div><em>I believed in You when I had <strong>sorrow,</strong></em></div><div><em>I had Faith in You when I was joyful,</em></div><div><em>I believed in Your <strong>Power,</strong></em></div><div><em>Hugging every breath,</em></div><div><em>Honoring every <strong>small success,</strong></em></div><div><em>Yearning for my Dream,</em></div><div><em>Watering the seed,</em></div><div><em><strong>Growing every Day</strong>,</em></div><div><em>Noticing and accepting every lesson you put on my plate,</em></div><div><em>Finally the plant grew and grew and it became</em></div><div><em>A beautiful flower shining in all its glory, </em></div><div><em>Showing its hidden pattels to the world </em></div><div><em>Holding its head High above,</em></div><div><em>Climbing yet another step towards the ladder of .... Success.</em></div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div> </div><div>By Galit.</div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div> </div><div><strong>As I was cooking today, I was thinking to myself how important it is to have constant faith in the Universe. Believing blindly and unconditionally that the universe will bring us what we so much long for. </strong></div><br /><div><strong>Sometimes obstacles come in our way and often times we almost want to give up, but suddenly the Artist within us, our superior knowledge, tells us in her soft voice: keep on going because when you believe, when you persist, you will eventually reach your goal. Sounds easy right?</strong> Well it isn't always because the Ego wants us to give up, telling us we are dreamers, that what we want to achieve is impossible, and unrealistic. </div><div> </div><div><strong>This is the moment we are confronted with a choice.</strong>Who do we listen to? We can listen to the Ego, but if we do, are we going to accomplish our goal, our dream?You probably worked very hard already towards that goal and you are advancing, maybe not as fast as you would like and expect to , but small things have perhaps started to manifest.</div><br /><div><strong>Personally, I choose to hear my Artist because she knows what is best for me.</strong> Recently, I listened to her, and the universe has delivered my gift, a wonderful one. As I realized how powerful keeping the faith is, I cried from joy because I knew that not only did I receive a gift, but that I was very strong to be able to do that. The trust and the assurance you put out there is very important in achieving the success you want.</div><div></div><div>Did you have a similar experience and how did it affect your life?</div><br /><div>Dream, Believe, and Act is what shall bring you your desire, your dreams and happiness. 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